I am interested in the idea of mutual submission. It certainly seems to be an idea inspired by the Holy Spirit as Paul instructed us in Ephesians 5:21 to “submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.” We are all familiar with the passages that offer instruction for the family, and they are quite clear. Children are to obey their parents, wives submit to their husbands as unto the Lord, and husbands love their wives and even follow Christ’s example who laid down his life for his bride.
It seems reasonable that laying down our life for our spouse involves putting their needs ahead of our own, and submitting or inclinations and desires to prefer theirs. This does not cause the wife to become head of the home, but certainly empowers her to become a partner, part of the decision making team, and also to feel secure in knowing that she is loved, cared for, and will not be dominated by another person’s self seeking inclinations.
We are living in trying times, when the definition of family is being redefined by society. It is wise to stay aligned to the anchor, God’s Word. His plan works. Mutual respect, cooperation, love, and yes even mutual submission help advance the kingdom of God, as healthy families create healthy churches, and a healthy witness to a watching world.
